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Understanding Japanese Customs and Manners with The Language SKOOL

Japan is a country rich in traditions and unique social customs. Instead of shaking hands, people bow, and it's common to remove shoes indoors. These traditions may feel different, but they’re all about respect and harmony. Whether you're planning a trip or just curious about Japanese culture, understanding these customs can help you connect with locals and avoid awkward moments.

Let’s dive into some key traditions that make Japan so special!

1. Bowing: The Fine Art of Respect

Bowing, or "ojigi," is an essential part of Japanese greetings, conveying an attitude of respect and acknowledgment. The depth and duration of the bow change according to the social context:

  • Casual Bow: A casual 15-degree inclination, among friends. 

  • Formal Bow: A bow of a little less e.g. 30 degrees that is considered appropriate for business settings.

  • Apology Bow: A lower 45-degree bow expressing deep sorrow.

So while there's no expectation for foreigners to master the art of bowing, a respectful nod will go a long way. 

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2. Shoe Etiquette: The Genkan Way

In Japan, it's common to take off your shoes before entering a home to keep things clean. Shoes are left in the "genkan," the entryway. Hosts usually offer indoor slippers for guests, and sometimes even special slippers for the bathroom to keep things extra hygienic.

3. Gifting: An Art of Appreciation

The gift-giving custom, or "omiyage," is a revered practice in Japan signifying respect and appreciation. Here are things to bear in mind:

  • Presentation: Careful wrapping is deemed an absolute necessity and demonstrates the thoughtfulness of the gift-giver.

  • Number Sensitivity: Never give gifts that come in sets of four, which is believed to be a number associated with "death" in Japanese superstition.

  • Accepting: Accept gifts with both hands and express gratitude.

4. Dining Etiquette: Rituals at the Table

Japanese dining customs are rich with etiquette:

  • Chopstick Use: Never point, stab food, or pass items directly from one set of chopsticks to another, as this resembles funeral rituals.

  • Phrases: Begin meals with "itadakimasu" ("I humbly receive") and conclude with "gochisousama" ("Thank you for the meal").

  • Pouring Drinks: It's customary to pour drinks for others rather than oneself, fostering a sense of camaraderie.

5. Public Behavior: Harmony in Society

Japanese society values harmony and consideration:

Quietness: Maintain a low volume in public spaces, especially on public transportation.

  • Cleanliness: Dispose of litter properly and avoid eating while walking.

  • Punctuality: Being on time is a sign of respect and reliability.

6. Business Etiquette: Professionalism and Politeness

In professional settings:

  • Business Cards: Present and receive cards with both hands, examining the card before placing it respectfully on the table.

  • Communication: Indirectness and humility are valued; assertive behavior may be perceived as rude.

7. Social Norms: Subtle Interactions

Subtlety defines many Japanese social interactions:

  • Indirect Communication: People often avoid direct refusals to maintain harmony.

  • Apologies: Frequent apologizing signifies humility and acknowledgment of others' feelings.

Respecting Japanese customs makes your experience richer and helps you connect with the people. You don’t have to be perfect, but making an effort to understand and follow local etiquette is always appreciated!